How To Get The Girl Who Doesn’t Like You Back
Ever fall in love with that ONE really special girl?
You can’t imagine meeting another girl out there who’s as incredible as she is -- it seems damn near impossible.
She’s just too amazing.
Funny. Beautiful. Smart… Perfect.
You go to sleep dreaming about her. Wake up thinking about her. You even write your name in little hearts like a sixth grader would on their binder.
… There’s just one big problem.
She doesn’t like you back.
Every guy out there experiences what we call ‘chasing bigfoot’ syndrome.
They get stuck on the idea that this ONE special girl is the only girl out there for them -- even when she hasn’t made any indication that the feeling is mutual.
When it comes to chasing bigfoot, there’s 3 major categories a guy will fall into:
Your ONE girl already has a boyfriend, but you patiently wait for her to break up so you can swoop in for the rebound.
You might end up waiting years for this to happen.
Until the day you go on Facebook and see that she’s planning a wedding. And it’s not with you.
You’re afraid to tell her how you feel because it might ‘ruin the friendship.’
This girl has NO IDEA that you go to sleep imagining her as the mother of your unborn children.
Rather than man up and tell her how you really feel, you jerk off to PG-13 pictures of her while imagining of the amazing life you’ll never have with her.
Opposite of Guy #2, The Frienzoned Guy has made his intentions clear.
You’ve asked her out. Maybe even got her on a few dates. But in the end, it’s her that says she ‘doesn’t wanna ruin your friendship.’
Now, you’ve become the straight version of a gay bff. She cries on your shoulder when the other guys break her heart.
You hope she’ll ‘come around’ one day and realize what an amazing catch you are. But she never does.
Obsessive behavior rarely results in a positive outcome -- whether it be obsessing over finding the ‘right’ moment, obsessing over how your feelings might hurt the relationship, or obsessing over the day she might come around.
But I have some good news:
In fact, she’s just another one of the many girls you will meet in your lifetime.
There's this little problem humans create for themselves when it comes to relationships. We think that 'one' girl is the end all, be all. We fail to recognize the fact that there are BILLIONS of other chicks out there -- millions of which we'd actually be attracted to.
Sure, this 'one' girl may seem super special right fucking now. But when you STOP the obsessive behavior, you’ll finally start letting her go.
A week later, she’ll just be ‘kinda special.’ One month, she’ll just be another ‘cool girl’...
One year, and she’s just a memory.
But in order to get there, you need to STOP OBSESSING.
No social media stalking. No asking mutual friends what she’s been ‘up to.’ No more going to be with her in your dreams, or waking up to thoughts of her in the morning.
What will you do with all that newly-available free time? You’ll start doing interesting shit you’ve always wanted to do but didn’t because you were busy with her.
You’re going to go out and talk to as many girls as possible.
And you’re going to ask the ones you like out on dates.
You’re going to replace that unhealthy obsession for her with a healthy obsession for you -- getting out there, leading and interesting life, and doing the shit that makes you happy.
No fucking excuses.
For more, check out Simple Pickup’s latest video:
Still want more? Then click here to join Project Go. It’s our exclusive, members-only community that’s perfect for guys who are serious about building the kind of inner-confidence that attracts women on a deeper level. Just ONE video is guaranteed to give you measurable results.
You can’t imagine meeting another girl out there who’s as incredible as she is -- it seems damn near impossible.
She’s just too amazing.
Funny. Beautiful. Smart… Perfect.
You go to sleep dreaming about her. Wake up thinking about her. You even write your name in little hearts like a sixth grader would on their binder.
… There’s just one big problem.
She doesn’t like you back.
Every guy out there experiences what we call ‘chasing bigfoot’ syndrome.
They get stuck on the idea that this ONE special girl is the only girl out there for them -- even when she hasn’t made any indication that the feeling is mutual.
When it comes to chasing bigfoot, there’s 3 major categories a guy will fall into:
(1) The “I’ll Be Here When You Breakup” Guy
Your ONE girl already has a boyfriend, but you patiently wait for her to break up so you can swoop in for the rebound.
You might end up waiting years for this to happen.
Until the day you go on Facebook and see that she’s planning a wedding. And it’s not with you.
(2) The “I Can’t Tell Her How I Feel” Guy
You’re afraid to tell her how you feel because it might ‘ruin the friendship.’
This girl has NO IDEA that you go to sleep imagining her as the mother of your unborn children.
Rather than man up and tell her how you really feel, you jerk off to PG-13 pictures of her while imagining of the amazing life you’ll never have with her.
(3) The “Friendzoned” Guy
Opposite of Guy #2, The Frienzoned Guy has made his intentions clear.
You’ve asked her out. Maybe even got her on a few dates. But in the end, it’s her that says she ‘doesn’t wanna ruin your friendship.’
Now, you’ve become the straight version of a gay bff. She cries on your shoulder when the other guys break her heart.
You hope she’ll ‘come around’ one day and realize what an amazing catch you are. But she never does.
Fact: These 3 types of guys will NEVER get the girl of their dreams.
Obsessive behavior rarely results in a positive outcome -- whether it be obsessing over finding the ‘right’ moment, obsessing over how your feelings might hurt the relationship, or obsessing over the day she might come around.
But I have some good news:
That girl you’ve been obsessing over is NOT the one.
In fact, she’s just another one of the many girls you will meet in your lifetime.
There's this little problem humans create for themselves when it comes to relationships. We think that 'one' girl is the end all, be all. We fail to recognize the fact that there are BILLIONS of other chicks out there -- millions of which we'd actually be attracted to.
Sure, this 'one' girl may seem super special right fucking now. But when you STOP the obsessive behavior, you’ll finally start letting her go.
A week later, she’ll just be ‘kinda special.’ One month, she’ll just be another ‘cool girl’...
One year, and she’s just a memory.
But in order to get there, you need to STOP OBSESSING.
No social media stalking. No asking mutual friends what she’s been ‘up to.’ No more going to be with her in your dreams, or waking up to thoughts of her in the morning.
What will you do with all that newly-available free time? You’ll start doing interesting shit you’ve always wanted to do but didn’t because you were busy with her.
You’re going to go out and talk to as many girls as possible.
And you’re going to ask the ones you like out on dates.
You’re going to replace that unhealthy obsession for her with a healthy obsession for you -- getting out there, leading and interesting life, and doing the shit that makes you happy.
No fucking excuses.
For more, check out Simple Pickup’s latest video:
Still want more? Then click here to join Project Go. It’s our exclusive, members-only community that’s perfect for guys who are serious about building the kind of inner-confidence that attracts women on a deeper level. Just ONE video is guaranteed to give you measurable results.
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